20/10/2020 – How to treat a person, based on their characters?
From dhamma, there are five types of person, and train our skills to deal with them :
从佛法中有五种类型的人，佛法教导我们技能来应对他们：
The person who is impure in deed but pure in speech 行为不纯，但言语纯正的人
- Parable : dirty rag( the monk carefully tears off only its good portion)
寓言：脏抹布（和尚只小心地撕下了它好的部分）
- Skill : wisely attend only to the person’s pure speech
技能 : 明智地只听人的纯话
The person who is impure in speech but pure in deed 言语不纯(不诚实)，行为纯正的人
Parable: algae-covered pond(the thirsty person clears the algae away and drinks the clean cooling water)
寓言：藻类覆盖的池塘（口渴的人清除藻类并喝干净的冷却水）
Skill: wisely attend only to the person’s pure deed 技巧：明智地只照顾人的纯洁行为
The Hoof print Puddle 蹄印水坑
The person who is impure in both deed and speech, but periodically opens his heart to noble, friendly, and compassionate things.
这个人在行为和言语上都不纯洁，但有时会敞开心做一点点高尚，友善和富有同情心的事情。
Parable : Hoof print Puddle (The thirsty traveller has to go down on all fours and gingerly sip up the water like a cow does. This parable exhorts us to be humble before such difficult people, and to cultivate patience and wisdom to manage and pacify difficult people.)
寓言：蹄印水坑（渴的旅行者必须像牛一样四下垂，小心翼翼地喝水。这个寓言敦促我们在如此艰难的人面前谦卑，并培养耐心和智慧来管理和安抚艰难的人。）
Skill : wisely attend only to his appearance of faith/goodness 技巧：明智地只看他的诚实/善良
The Sick Traveler 生病的旅行者
The person who is impure in both deed and speech, and his heart do not open to any noble things
行为和言语不纯洁的人，对任何崇高的事物都不肯敞开心去做
Parable : Sick traveler (a very sickly traveler, without any requisites, will definitely die if no one helps him. This parable exhorts us to have empathy and compassion, to be kind to this person even if he does not deserve it.)
寓言：生病的旅行者（一位病重的旅行者，没有任何粮食储备，如果没有人帮助他肯定会死。这个寓言敦促我们要有同理心和同情心，即使这个人不配得到友善的帮助，也要友善的对待他。）
Skill : reflect compassionately on his unwholesome karmic fruit and arouse compassion.
技能：富有同情心地反思他的不良行为使他得到恶的报应，并激发我们的同情心
The Clear Lake 清澈的湖
The person who is pure in both deed and speech, and heart open for noble practices.
行为和言语纯正的人，愿意为高尚的行为敞开心怀去学习。
Parable : Clear lake (if someone comes along tired and overheated, taking a dip in this lake is most refreshing.)
寓言：清澈的湖面（如果有人疲倦和过热，在这个湖中畅游最令人振奋。)
Skill : wisely attend to his deed, his speech or his attitude, without harboring any jealousy.
技巧：明智地照顾自己的行动，讲话或态度，不要嫉妒。Our actions should not bring harm to ourselves, to others , or bring harm to both ourselves and others. 我们的行为不应给自己造成伤害，伤害他人或对我们自己和他人造成伤害. May i live happily, may i have good health, may i have a peaceful mind. 愿我可以幸福地生活，愿我有健康的身体，愿我有一颗平稳的心 May my loved ones live happily, may they have good health, may they have a peaceful mind. 愿我心爱的人可以幸福地生活，愿我心爱的人有健康的身体，愿我心爱的人有一颗平稳的心。 May people who are unfriendly towards me live happily, may they have good health, may they have a peaceful mind. 愿不善待我的人可以幸福地生活，愿不善待我的人有健康的身体，愿不善待我的人有一颗平稳的心 May all beings live happily, may all beings have good health, may all beings have a peaceful mind.
愿所有众生可以幸福地生活，愿所有众生有健康的身体，愿所有众生有一颗平稳的心
Mindfulness 